Father is a main
income source of a house who works day and night to feed up his family. He
is mainly referred as a horse of the cart on which family sit and enjoys their
travelling.
But most of children gone against their parents mostly
fought with father. Then a father thinks that I fulfill their all needs I
worked my whole life to feed up them. But why
they do not even talk politely with me.
Where I am lacking?
After thinking thourghly he blames his child. But never
think why his child is remaining in irritate mood.
The things where most of parent especially father is lacking
are:
1) Father always thinks to earn money; to fulfill needs of
family .But never thinks that his child needs his personal support. They do not
need enough money than their pocket money. They want someone an experienced
person who knows them from their childhood.
They want to discuss number of social topic with them. So kindly get some time
to spend it with your children.
2) Father has some expectations from their child but he
never think that whether his
son/daughter is capable to achieve that dream.
3) Not everyone is similar hence the comparison with society
is also creating problem. Some of my friends who spoil their 3-4 years of life
in drugs are not able to ask their parents "DAD
I AM NOT ABLE TO DO THIS PLEASE FORGIVE ME"
Children choose another way to avoid stress i.e. Drugs.
Parents are sending them money for studies but they are using it in wrong way.
They are young but a father has lot of experience, he can help them to overcome
from this situation.
4) If student want to get back home his parents would like
to say "Gupta ji's son is an
Engineer now, he had started his journey with you, and how can we face them!
When you came home" and etc. What will your son can do. Some
youngsters are not able to handle this kind of stress they would like to finish
them.
5) Many students complete their studies on time but they are
not able to get job. Some of these students are willing to join their business
but Father said “why business I am doing it well, you have finished your
studies go and find job”. Many parent use to say that “I spent 8 lac-9lac on
your studies now you are asking to come back never!”.”Oh DAD I AM NOT A PART OF INVESTMENT SCHEME PLEASE FORGIVE ME AND HELP
ME TO SECURE MY FUTURE “.This would be the voice of their child.
CONCLUSION: YOUR
CHILD IS A UNIQUE PERSON DO NOT COMPARE HIM WITH THE SOCIETY AND YOU CAN BE A
BEST GUIDE OR AN INSPIRATION FOR YOUR CHILD. KINDLY GET SOME TIME AND SPEND IT WITH HIM.
KINDLY CONSIDER THESE POINTS
**DO NOT COMPARE IT WITH YOU MAY BE SOMEONE AROUND YOU HAVE
THIS KIND OF STRESS OR WHATEVER*****
***THERE ARE LOT OF STUDENT WHO LOST THEIR FATHER IN
CHILDHOOD BUT THEY ARE WELL-SETTLED.PLEASE DO NOT LOOK AT OTHER's HOME.KEEP
CHECK IT WHAT's GOING IN YOUR HOUSE.***
